if i hv 2 find a word parellel 2 friendship......then i wd say its ''soothing''.
spending time with a friend is like putting ur head on soft,fluffy pillow....cuddling ur favourite soft toy n going peacefully 2 sleep.
short time spent with ur friend is as energizing as a powernap.
all friends make u happy but they still hv catagories.........good friends,very good friends n best friends.
as u go from good 2 best catagory......amount of efforts u need 2 take 2 retain the friendship reduces.with best friends.......all u hv 2 do is......just be u.
friend helps u find urself.u can react any way u want......get angry...shout....walk away.....when u turn back,u'll still find him standing there.friend will make u smile in the midst of tears.he will show u the importance of smiling without making u feel ashamed of tears.he will give u shoulder when u need 2 cry without compulsing u 2 do the same.
here r some of my friends who remained with,UNBEARABLE me.......just for friendship.
VINDA.........
she talked 2 me......or rather i talked n she listened.she smiled...always smiled.when she felt alone...she wrote diary...n showed me.she used 2 write beautifully.problems seem very childish now but her words were always sincere.....n that hs always stayed with me.
she represents strength n emotions......she is someone who always takes her own decisions.....n bears the consequences...good or bad...with straight back n smile on her face.
she didnt always get the best situations but she surely made the best of every situation.
KARUNA.......
she made me smile....always.i hv shared most of my college laughs with her.
she represents attitude...power 2 be herself...today n always.
she loved me...truly cared abt me....n cried with me.
life drifted us apart n we cdnt give justice 2 our friendship.all there is left is our memories....but as she said.....knowing in our hearts....that we once owned gold is comforting.
ASHWINI........
she is my cousin...but we,as sisters..sucked.we hd no relation till we were just sisters.
then we became friends n remained only friends.
she represents adaptability n improvements.once upon a time...she was as sad,as depressed,as negative,a person can be.but she thought..n.learnt n improved.we both hv gone through some difficult times together.we hv talked for hours...discussing n finding n implementing solutions 2 problems.
i am very proud of the way,she hs shaped up.it took a lot of strength n courage on her part coz that is not her nature.being where she is today,took massive makeover.today..her virtues r acquired traits....which she is using beautifully n thats what makes me proud.
SHARDUL..........
he is actually my collegue....but luckily also my friend.i was a witness 2 a major crisis in his life.i hv seen him coming brilliently out of it.
he represents help n success.i am yet 2 find an occasion when he hs refused 2 help me or anyone for that matter.he always helps...as much as he can in his capacity.
he is also very successful n still very humble abt it.his success is hard earned n very well deserved.
he talks,listens n helps me without jealousy.
RAHUL........
he is a very recent friend.we know each other since jr.college but became friends only recently.
he represents patience n creativity.
he listens without ever judging me.just listens when i pour my heart out.
he is very radical....very ''hatake'' from the whole world...but not irrationally so.
he hs his own reasons n logics n views n opinions.he is aggressively different n yet very mild.he just IS.....he just flows.
its beautiful 2 catch him in the mood of sharing his views....just beautiful.
but like all other good things in life....his words r rare n precious.
they open up a new world for me.....which is dramatically different from mine.i get contrast...n constant confusions from him.but it keeps my brain active n mind happy.
he paints.......just that....actually i should not leave any space between ''HE'' N ''PAINTS''.....they r one word....saying anything else is an insult.
SAKET........
he is my kid brother.i knew him very well as a child.but then he was just my brother.
he is very fast becoming a grown man n becoming my friend even faster.
but i really dont know this man.he is so different than my kid bro.he constantly surprises n shocks me with his maturity,balanced mind n intelligence.
he represents youth.
he is strong n his strength lies in his ability 2 think rationally seperating his emotions.
he hs a gentle,genuine heart filled with compassion.
i always liked being his sister but now i am proud 2 be his friend.
MANDAR........
he is my husband.n he taught me the meaning of love.
he represents happiness n peace.
we became friends after we hd 2 children.we were a couple...then became parents but it took us more time 2 accept each other as friends.....
he hs a very soft heart,which cant hate anyone.he lets me be me.he can sooth away my worst fears.just being with him is enough 2 bring me smile.
he hs always been a gr8 husband n father......but also learning fast 2 be gr8 friend.
however independent i pride myself 2 be....1 thing i need n totally depend on,is HIM.
theses r my friends for life.except karuna....i am still in contact with everybody.our friendship hs enriched over the years passed...like a good,old wine.
memories with them always keep my heart warm in this cold,scary world.
i am forever thankful 2 GOD for them.i am lucky 2 know them the way i could.
their love,support,help,patience n care made me a much better person n changed my world for better.
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